09/18/12 - 0 Comments
Ten Signs He Thinks of You as More Than a Friend
Take a look next to you. Your really close guy friend? He could be disguising himself as your best friend when in reality all he wants is to be your boyfriend. We know, it’s always difficult to know what he’s thinking, but there are a few signs that can help.
He Notices Your Haircut. When you get your hair cut, it’s usually a big deal. But half the time most of your friends don’t even realize. So, if he comments on how he likes your new ‘do, he’s noticing a lot more about you than just your new style.
He Actually Calls. In a world of texting, an actual phone call is pretty rare. So, if he rings you on the regular instead of texting, he wants to hear your voice.
He Always Pays. Chivalry isn’t dead, ladies! If he is constantly paying, that’s a sign he’s treating you as a girlfriend. Even if it’s just for a fro-yo run, it matters.
He Hates On Every Guy You’ve Ever Dated. Jealousy is not the prettiest trait. But, if he is constantly judging all the guys you’ve dated, he’s trying to tell you that he’s better than all of them. Subtle, right?
He Remembers Your Plans. In the crazy world of work and other engagements, it’s not always easy to remember to maintain a social life. If you two planned to meet for happy hour and he gets there before you, it’s pretty safe to say he’s excited for your arrival.
He Laughs At Your Terrible Jokes. Not all of us have the wit and spunk of Chelsea Handler. So, when you tell a lame joke and no one laughs except for him, he wants you to know he cares about your feelings.
He Puts His Hand On Your Lower Back. Sounds simple enough, right? Most guys will put their hand on a woman’s lower back when directing them or simply walking next to them. But only women that they are interested in—if they just see you as a friend their hand will be on your upper back.
He Remembers Everything You’ve Ever Said. Remember when you were telling that story about how you got that scar on your foot when you were five? When you go to tell it again, he remembers every detail. Don’t be freaked out, he was just listening when you were talking, meaning his feelings might be deeper than those of pure friendship.
He’s Rescued You From THOSE Guys At The Bar. It’s happened to all of us. That creepy man at the bar who is dropping pick-up lines like it’s his job won’t leave you alone. So your guy friend magically comes over and saves you every. single. time. Not only does he not want you to talk to him, but he wants to be the one rescuing you.
He Constantly Compliments You. Your new nail polish, that new shirt, your new perfume. If he notices all of these changing things, it means he is always paying attention to your appearance and overall aura.
Maybe it’s about time you take a look at that guy friend again and think of the possibilities of a relationship. If all of these signs point in the right direction, then it might be worth a shot. Don’t be scared, some of the best relationships come from friendships. So, are you ready for it?
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